Addressing Your Concerns

What should you do if your girlfriend seems interested in someone with a larger size? Recently, she watched adult content featuring larger sizes and found it appealing. You’ve been told you have a smaller size, which affects you deeply. How can you ensure she doesn’t leave you for this reason like your previous partners did?

Understanding the Real Issue

While it’s important not to dismiss your feelings, it’s unlikely your exes left purely due to size. Other factors were likely at play. Often, these fears are more about internal perceptions, turning them into significant issues within relationships.

Does Size Really Matter?

Some women do prioritize size, as societal focus on it is prevalent. However, it’s not as significant as you might think. Porn often portrays fantasies not desired in real life. If size was a true issue, it would likely have been apparent early in the relationship, not surfacing later.

Focus on Intimacy and Pleasure

Take a deep breath and consider shifting the focus from penetration to overall pleasure. Engage in other forms of intimacy such as oral, manual stimulation, and incorporating toys. When the emphasis is on mutual satisfaction, anxiety decreases, enhancing the experience for both partners.

Communication is Key

Seek reassurance from your girlfriend by expressing your concerns about her interest in certain adult content. She can then reassure you that size is not a factor in her affection for you.

Exploring Options Together

Explore ways to incorporate it into your relationship. This could include opening the relationship, using enhancements like a penis sheath, or experimenting with larger toys. However, be cautious with options that might increase insecurity.

Relax and Seek Support

It’s important to relax and avoid fixation. If these concerns persist, consider seeking therapy to explore underlying issues and develop healthier perspectives.