Most media often showcase slim, slender women, but that doesn’t mean plus size women can’t enjoy fulfilling sex lives. In fact, Many bigger women have fantastic sexual experiences. While size can influence how some positions feel, there are plenty that work wonderfully for BBWs (big beautiful women). Discover the best positions and how to adapt them to suit your body.
Exploring New Positions
Try these positions and find what works best for you:
Doggy Style
Doggy style is ideal for BBWs as it avoids interference with your tummy, with your partner entering from behind. If you have a larger backside, this position might be challenging, but strategically placed pillows, especially memory foam ones, can support your weight, enhancing G-spot stimulation.
Dominant Female Position
An empowering position for larger women involves your partner lying down while you straddle him. Adding pillows under his butt can create a better angle. This position works well if your man can penetrate from behind by adjusting his angle, potentially placing his legs between yours.
The Leg Glider
Lean slightly to one side and lift your upper leg towards the ceiling. Your partner straddles the leg on the bed and scoots closer for penetration. This position allows for nuzzling, leg massages, or foot play if desired.
Thigh Tide
This variation of Reverse Cowgirl involves your partner bending one leg. You can wrap your arms around his leg and grind for increased clitoral stimulation, enhancing your chances of orgasm.
The Butterfly
Best suited if your partner can stand while you lie on the bed, scooted to the edge. Your legs should be straight against his chest for comfort. You can modify by wrapping your legs around his waist or keeping them extended behind him.
Superwoman Position
Lie on your stomach for a variation of the Butterfly position, bringing your vagina closer for easier penetration.
Deep Impact
Similar to the legs-on-shoulder and Missionary styles, your partner kneels instead of lying on top, raising your hips for deeper penetration. Experiment with different leg placements for comfort and pleasure.
Tips for Plus Size Sex
Be on Top
If both partners are larger, being on top can ease penetration and reveal more of your partner’s size. Reverse Cowgirl is effective, but avoid positions where you face each other. Modify by using pillows under your partner’s hips if needed.
Confidence and Comfort
Embrace how you look during sex. Confidence is attractive, and your partner likely enjoys your body as it is. Consider wearing lingerie or focusing on sensations rather than appearances.
Practical Adjustments
– Use kneeling rather than sitting or lying when needed.
– Move to the floor if a bed is too soft.
– Use pillows strategically for support.
– Adjust positions to suit your body and comfort level.
Safety and Communication
Avoid positions requiring your partner to support your weight if they’re not comfortable. Ensure any sex furniture or swings can support your combined weight. Avoid using non-load-bearing items like faucets for support.
Remember, flexibility varies, so don’t push your body beyond its limits. Communicate with your partner if you feel uncomfortable or if something isn’t working. Good communication is essential for a satisfying sex life.
By trying these positions and tips, you can enjoy a fulfilling and exciting sex life as a plus size woman. Your enthusiasm will surely delight your partner!